Brenda spent the first course complaining about the cold air coming from the window beside our booth. She asked the waiter to adjust the thermostat twice. She sent back her Caesar salad because there was “too much dressing, it’s practically soup.” She told a long story about her neighbor in Chicago whose son had bought her a condo on the lake.

“Some children,” she said, looking at David, “really know how to take care of their parents.”

David smiled weakly and drank his water.

By the time our steaks arrived, she’d turned her attention to me.

“Georgia,” she said. She was slowly swirling the wine in her glass. “David tells me you’re still living in that big old four-bedroom house.”

“I am.”

She tilted her head and gave me a thin smile.

“Don’t you think that’s a little selfish?” she said. “All that space, just for you? While Sarah and David are squeezed into that little townhouse? You could give them the house and find yourself a nice little apartment. Something manageable. At your age.”

Across the table, David stared down at his mashed potatoes.

He’s thirty-two years old. He’s six foot one. He manages a team of eleven people at an insurance company.

But at that moment, he looked exactly like he did when he was nine and broke the neighbor’s window with a baseball. Head down. Shoulders hunched. Hoping the grown-ups would sort it out without him.

“My house is paid off,” I said evenly. “I like my garden. I’m comfortable there.”

Sarah rolled her eyes.

“Oh, come on, Georgia,” she said. “Mom’s just being practical. You’re always so defensive about that house.”

“It isn’t defensive to want to stay in my own home.”

Brenda let out a dry little chuckle. It sounded like a chair scraping across a floor.

“People your age do get stuck in their ways,” she said. “I understand. But honestly, it must be embarrassing for David. He’s supposed to be the man of his household, and his mother’s sitting on all the family assets.”

I looked at my son.

I waited for him to say something. Anything. Brenda, that’s my mom’s house. Or Let’s change the subject. Or even just Mom, you don’t have to answer that.

He picked up his fork. He put it down again. He adjusted it so it was perfectly straight next to his plate.

He kept his eyes on the potatoes.

That silence hurt more than anything Brenda said.

Brenda was just a visitor with an opinion and a wine glass. I’d met her four times in my life. Her opinion of me didn’t matter.

But David was my son.

He knew how hard his father and I had worked to pay off that house. He’d been there. He remembered the summer he was twelve, when the three of us painted the front porch pale blue and ended up with more paint on ourselves than on the boards. He remembered helping his father plant the maple tree by the driveway, the two of them digging the hole together, Walter letting him pat down the dirt with his little sneakers. He remembered carrying grocery bags into the same kitchen Brenda now seemed to think belonged to him.

He remembered all of it.

And he still said nothing.

I reminded myself to breathe.

“I don’t think of my home as an asset waiting to be handed out,” I said carefully. “It’s where I live, Brenda.”

Brenda gave Sarah a knowing look across the table. Like, see what I mean?

Sarah leaned back against the leather booth and crossed her arms.

“If you don’t like what my mother is saying,” she said, “settle the bill and go.”

There it was.

She thought she held every card. She believed I’d sit back down, swallow my pride, and sit through the rest of the meal, because that’s what I’d done for five years. I’d kept the peace. I’d smiled. I’d paid.

Instead, I picked up my purse.

“All right,” I said.

I walked to the host stand by the front door and asked for the manager.

He was a polite young man with slicked-back hair and a name tag that said TREVOR. I handed him my credit card.

“I’d like to pay for table twelve,” I said. “The whole bill. With a twenty percent tip, please.”

He looked over at our booth, where Sarah and Brenda were watching me and whispering. He looked back at me.

“Of course, ma’am,” he said quietly.

The total was two hundred and fifty-three dollars and forty cents.

I signed the receipt. I thanked Trevor. I buttoned my coat.

Then I walked out the front door into the cool October night.