t’s been 30 years since Monica Lewinsky became a household name, but now—at 51—she’s telling her story on her terms.
On a recent episode of Elizabeth Day’s podcast How To Fail, Monica opened up about the scandal that once turned her life upside down: her relationship with then-President Bill Clinton.
She was 22. He was 49. And what started as a workplace affair quickly exploded into a national scandal that triggered impeachment hearings—and left Monica as the public’s punching bag.
“It Was Love—Or What I Thought Was Love”
Reflecting on that time, Monica described her feelings with honesty and perspective:
“It was 22 to 24-year-old young woman’s love. There was some limerence… but it was also an abuse of power.”
Back then, she says, she saw it as romance. Now, she sees it more clearly: a serious imbalance of power—and a deeply unfair narrative pushed by the White House.
“I wasn’t a dumb bimbo. I was portrayed to be. That was the struggle.”
A Reputation Shaped by Others
After the scandal broke, Monica says the administration crafted a version of her that painted her as unstable and foolish—and much of the public, including many women, bought into it.
“That mantle was picked up by a lot of women. It was a narrative… pushed by the White House.”
Even Clinton initially denied the relationship until he admitted it publicly in August 1998.
Life After the Scandal
Monica has been honest before about how the media frenzy affected her. She became a punchline, hounded by reporters, and struggled with depression.
“I would’ve liked a more normal life,” she says. “A more normal trajectory.”
In another interview on the Call Her Daddy podcast, she got even more candid:
“I was painted as a stalker… not attractive enough. Because of the power dynamics, I never should’ve been in that f***ing position.”
A Message to the Next Generation
What hurt the most, Monica says, wasn’t just what happened to her—it was knowing so many young women watched her humiliation play out on the world stage.
“There was so much collateral damage for women of my generation… to be torn apart for my sexuality, for my mistakes, for my everything.”
Now, she isn’t asking for pity—just understanding. To be seen as more than a scandal, more than a name in someone else’s legacy.
And maybe her story forces us to ask: Have we really changed? Or are we still quick to shame women while powerful men walk away with their reputations intact?
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